Somebody You Love
Jenna Love & Holly Harte: just two Aussie SWers sharing our expertise in disappointing our parents, breaching community guidelines, and banging the people who vote against our rights. www.somebodyyoulove.net Instagram/Twitter/Facebook: @somebodyyoupodwww.patreon.com/somebodyyoupod
Episodes
82 episodes
77. Turned On: The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas
The film The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas was released in 1982, based on the 1978 musical, based loosely on a true story. The movie stars Dolly Parton and Burt Reynolds and this week Holly and Jenna are sharing their thoughts on it!
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Season 4
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Episode 77
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1:09:33
76. Somebody You Love makes and studies Indie Porn (Dr Zahra Stardust
Combining 15 years as a professional undresser, award-winning stripper, pole dancer, & 🌽 star with an international research portfolio spanning SWer activism, LGBTQ+ health, sexual rights and sextech, it’s Zahra Stardust!Order Indie ...
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Season 4
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Episode 76
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1:02:22
75. Somebody You Love faces digital violence (Pomma)
Pomma Granet, also known as Blair Bishop, also known as OnlyPomma, Juicy Pomma, Succubus Slut, and a host of other usernames given how many times they’ve had accounts deleted, is a New York-based full service sex worker, adult content creator, ...
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Season 4
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Episode 75
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1:02:37
74. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 2
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assaultWelcome to part 2, and apologies for the darkness of these episodes! This time Holly & Jenna each share another story of stalking/harassment, as well as talk about the red flags they’v...
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Season 4
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Episode 74
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1:08:34
73. Somebody You Love had a stalker Pt 1
CW: Stalking, harassment, sexual assault, animal death. We use the term “grandfathered” in this episode. We understand this term has very racist origins, and we apologise for the mistake. A better term would have been “legacy rates”
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Season 4
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Episode 73
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58:57
72. Turned On: Pretty Woman
Holly finally convinced Jenna to watch Pretty Woman and here we are! Patreon (from $3AUD/month): http://www.patreon.com/somebodyyoupodInstagram:
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Season 4
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Episode 72
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1:07:25
71. Somebody You Love wrote a book about sluts (Dr Hilary Caldwell)
Note: we had some technical issues when recording this episode, so unfortunately the audio isn’t at the level we usually like to deliver! Buy SLUTDOM: https://www.uqp.com.au/books/slutdom-reclaiming-shame-free-sexualityDr H...
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Season 4
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Episode 71
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53:21
70. Somebody You Love helps you ask sticky questions
How do I ask how recently they were tested for STIs? How do I ask for us to do something different this time? What if I get down there and it smells really bad? Holly & Jenna give you tips on how to tackle tricky topics and sticky subjects....
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Season 4
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Episode 70
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1:07:33
69. Just The Tips: So you want to be an Independent Escort Pt 3
In part three of this series (make sure you’ve listened to parts 1 & 2 if you’re new or thinking about joining the industry!), we’re talking about the actual booking - how do you keep time, how to set up for and run a booking, how to do ...
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Season 4
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Episode 69
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53:30
68. Just The Tips: So you want to be an independent escort? Pt 2
In part two of this series, we are moving more into the logistics of the job itself. Holly and Jenna talk about advertising & advertising platforms, dealing with time wasters, screening, getting deposits, and supplying invoices.
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Season 4
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Episode 68
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55:20
67. Somebody You Love lost their virginity* to an escort
Michael (he/him), and Louise (she/her) both lost their “virginity” to sex workers and they’ve both agreed to share their stories on the show! *Virginity is a social construct, but we talk about that more in the episode. P...
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Season 4
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Episode 67
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51:43
66. Is Somebody You Love an arsehole?
Yep, this week we are mining reddit for content. We read out the SW-related stories of contributors to /r/AITA and decide if we think:NTA (not the arsehole)YTA (you are the arsehole)NAH (no arseholes here)...
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Season 4
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Episode 66
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1:14:31
65. Turned On: Music Theatre and Sex Work
Get your jazz hands ready, we’re doing musicals! Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/41U6nuxshQciTYfLLnIsfb?si=a50dc606af40463eSonglist: 1. I Dreamed a Dream (Les Miserables, 1980) ...
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Season 4
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Episode 65
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43:27
64. Turned On: Songs about Sex Work
Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/41U6nuxshQciTYfLLnIsfb?si=a50dc606af40463eMandatory article:
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Season 4
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Episode 64
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35:41
63. Somebody You Love is non-binary (Charlie Bear)
TW: Shit People Say mentions sexual assaultMeet Charlie Bear, a trans, non-binary sex worker based in Melbourne, on Wurundjeri land. They were assigned female at birth, but currently live in a body that falls between female and ...
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Season 4
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Episode 63
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1:11:37
62. Somebody You Love does Christmas!
Holly spreads the festive fun while Jenna tries to maintain her strong boundaries around frivolity. CHAPTERS04:32: Sexy Gift Giving Guide 202320:50: Porno or not-porno?26:30: Holiday traditions50:17: New...
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Season 4
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Episode 62
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1:00:40
61. The Problem with (cishet) Male Escorts
Season 4 is here and we’re finally tackling the minefield of a topic that is male escorts!01:00 Main Segment: The Problem with Male Escorts57:25 Shit People Say: “you're definitely not seeing clients in the family home”Patreo...
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Season 4
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Episode 61
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1:07:03
60. Somebody You Love still has a podcast
CW: Deaths of peers 54:29 - 1:00:00For our final episode of season 3 we’re filling you in on what has happened in the world of Holly & Jenna (and Mr Love) over the last two years of Somebody You Love. What’s changed, what h...
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Season 3
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Episode 60
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1:19:48
59. Somebody You Love lost 50kgs (Lex Leigh)
CW: Weight loss, fatphobiaHolly & Jenna interview Lex Leigh - a nerdy gamer girl who has worked in the adult industry her entire adult life, including online and in person, and over the last few years has lost a total of 50k...
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Season 3
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Episode 59
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54:52
58. The Problem with the P-word
CW: SW slursWhy don't we like to be called "prostitutes"? When did this start and what are the alternatives? What is the harm in using slurs? What are the common arguments people use to continue saying the p-word?We know ...
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Season 3
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Episode 58
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1:04:13
57. Somebody You Love is a gay male escort
Charlie has many years experience in different areas of the industry, having started initially in Aotearoa (New Zealand) doing online work as well as full service. He is currently the Male Project Worker at SWOP NSW and he joins us today to ...
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Season 3
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Episode 57
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48:47
56. Somebody You Love is a transgender escort
Sophie is renowned for being the only German trans mistress in Australia and she recently announced her intentions to retire from SW this year, due to the negative experiences she has encountered as a trans person within the industry.We’...
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Season 3
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Episode 56
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59:08
55. Somebody You Love is a sex worker's parent (Jenna's mum)
Jenna managed to convince her mum to be on the show, and here she is - giving us the full, honest lowdown on what it’s like to have your daughter tell you she’s a sex worker. Patreon (from $3AUD/month):
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Season 3
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Episode 55
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41:04
54. Somebody You Love gets an STI test
CW: Mentions of sexual assault This week Holly & Jenna explain what you might expect when going to get STI tests and share some of their own horror stories of going to do so. Jenna shares a Shit People Say interaction with someo...
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Season 3
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Episode 54
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1:06:41
53. Somebody You Love is married to a sex worker (Mr Love)
Mr Love is Jenna’s husband and primary partner of 13 years. He’s also our sound engineer, and probably would’ve preferred to keep it that way, but Jenna & Holly somehow managed to convince him to make a guest appearance on the show, so here...
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Season 3
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Episode 53
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